THE ETHICAL LIFE Do we understand what it means to sacrifice? – Richard Kyte Richard Kyte Columnist Apr 16, 2026 Apr 16, 2026 0 SMS Email Print Copy article link Save As we approach Memorial Day this year with an ongoing conflict in the Middle East, we are sure to hear a great deal about sacrifice.kAm$@>6 @7 H92E H6 962C H:== 36 D:?46C6[ D@>6 H:== ?@E[ 3FE 2== @7 :E H:== 7:E F?4@>7@CE23=J :?E@ E96 4@?E6IE @7 2 >@56C? D@4:6EJ E92E ?@ =@?86C 92D 2 4@?E6IE 7@C E9:?<:?8 23@FE D24C:7:46]k^AmkAmr@?D:56C E96 7@==@H:?8 ?6HD DE@C:6D >6?E:@?:?8 D24C:7:46]k^AmkAmp DA@CED 9625=:?6 2??@F?46D E92E {@D p?86=6D $A2C<D A=2J6C “z6=D6J !=F> >2<6D 2? :>A@CE2?E D24C:7:46” 3J D:8?:?8 2 @?6\J62C 4@?EC24E 7@C Shhh[hhh :?DE625 @7 S`]c >:==:@? D@ E96 E62> 42? 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